Thursday, November 27, 2008

Love can withstand all...?

After what happened early this morning, I'm starting to doubt the phrase. In movies, fairytales and novels, the guy and girl always get back together again in the end. But in reality, how many couples are there that share the same ending?

Whether online gaming or in real life, when a person falls in love, they put their whole heart into it. But when it comes to breaking up, it sometimes can become brutal. Sure it's easy to say for a couple to break up, but doing it is a whole different matter. Once done, what's left is sadness, anger, frustration and regret.

If they knew things would turn out this way, why did they fall in love in the first place? What made them become attracted to each other in the beginning? Does their sweet memories worth anything at all to keep the relationship? And do they know how badly the break up affects those who care for them? Why is it so hard to find the one for you? And even harder to maintain the relationship? But to break up is just so easy in a matter of minutes? What does it take to keep the relationship from falling apart?

Definitely, I don't have the answers to those questions for I've never really fallen in love before. I guess happily ever after does belong only in the world of fiction and fantasy. Even from a bystander's point of view, seeing your friends end their relationship in such a way, not being able to talk them out of it or do anything to help at all. Sometimes makes you feel useless, especially when they're made for each other. That's how I felt and it's horrible.

To those who knows who I'm talking about, the damage has already been done, and there's little chance of even turning back. But know this, no matter what happens, I'll always be your friend.

1 comment:

~mEm0RiEs~ said...

^^ when it comes to love... people tends to remember only the sweetness but forget about the other flavours... love is actually the combination of sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy...

when a couple couldn't understand and accept the existance of the other flavour ( sour, bitter and spicy ), the relations becomes unstable when something bad happens...

if they understand the existance of these flavours they should know that because of these, they are able to understands their love ones even more or deeper... its actually improving the relationship among themselves...

but.. *sigh